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vows
Name: ladyk	2007-09-02
whatever you say

RUN

Name: Free Man

2007-12-11

To all the men out their about to get married, run!!!!! they just want to lock you down so they have someone to nag, complain to, and also to make their friends jealous and appease their mothers. As soon as you try to loosen their evil grip on you they will notice and file for divorce as soon as they find someone else who they wont get into a legal relationship with until they have taken every last penny from you. Remember they get at least half! HALF! may those words haunt you!!!!!!!!!!

RUN

Name: Free Man

2007-12-11

Marriage
Name: KAV	2007-12-15
Marriage is a beautiful thing. "Free Man" must have been burned. That's too bad. He's missing out. Marriage isn't about the material things. I am getting married next week and we may not have a bunch of extra money, but we have eachother. That's all we need. True love.

ahhhh
Name: cfew	2007-12-28
NICE!!Jaded man..to bad YOU didn't find the right woman, mabey there is something wrong with you, ever thought of that. Great place to put your stamp on, bored at home I guess

Hey free man
Name: mkmiller	2008-01-13
You sound like a bitter, angry person. I sure would not be married to someone such as yourself. My motivation for marriage is totally voluntary with no reservation. My fiance is a warm, giving man. I am blessed.

Free man
Name: mebabyme	2008-01-16
Someone must have hurt you bad eh? Thats not what marriage is about and Im sorry that soe evil bitch has put you through that! Not all women are like that, keep trying to fid a good one, they are out there!

what a sad little man
Name: carol	2008-01-20
"Free Man" is clearly imprisoned in his own living hell. He is sad and pathetic. If his wife really did leave him, then it's not hard to imagine why. Given the fact that he feels the need to bash all marriages and all women, he will clearly continue to lead an unhappy and lonely life.

Sad
Name: Debo	2008-01-20
Wow, that poor poor man must've really gotten it bad. Sorry pal! Love does exsist, it's sad you've lost all faith. Hang in there. Or hell, just run!

ridiculous
Name: bride to be	2008-01-23
wow. someone is bitter. just because you made a bad decision and married the wrong person doesn't mean we're all doomed to pay your consequences. what a waste of your time to make such a ridiculous comment.

Happy Man

Name: Jay

2008-01-25

Dear Mr. Free Man,

I feel so sad for you. You seem like a bitter person who had one bad relationship and is poisoned forever.

My wife and I have been married for 10 years, after knowing each other for 8 years. We don't have any children & we like it that way.

Our marriage is a partnership & if I had it to do over again I absolutely would.

It is unfortunate that you had a bad experience but are you planning on growing old alone and by yourself?

It is wonderful to know that I have someone waiting at home for me every day and although we don't always agree ... who does? Friends have disagreements just like couples do.

I feel sorry that you have become such a bitter person. Not everyone is out there to take half of what you own and if you are so worried about that -- there is such a thing called a prenuptial.

To me, you sound like you may still have some growing up to do and maybe then you will be ready for a serious and committed relationship. You seem to be a really negative person and that is not going to take you very far in any aspect of your life.

Good luck in finding yourself & getting over the anger that you have.

Jay

Wow
Name: Dude	2008-02-03
You're an idiot. if you marry somebody you really love andy they love you back; you won't have that problem. God. idiot. Haha.

Silliness

Name: Silliness

2008-02-09

Why, if you're so unwilling to be (re)married, are you searching on a website about wedding vows? If this is just a unique hobby, maybe you should try reading books, or origami, or something. You can rest assured that we all find extremely honorable of you to warn all unsuspecting men of the danger that is marriage. I'm guessing that by the time any man reaches the legal age for marriage, he's already heard some form of your comments, as we all constantly hear how women try to drag men down. (That's really why we wanted the right to vote; it's an evil woman scheme to take half of the world through divorce settlements...oh wait--shouldn't we already be entitled to half of the world?).

Too Bad
Name: Too Bad	2008-03-03
Dear Free Man, It is terrible for you too say such comments...not all marriages will end up like yours.

sorry sack of shit
Name: dudeness	2008-03-14
so sad to hear you had such a bad experience..not everything and everyone is like that. next time you meet a woman, you'll have your guard up so tight around your heart,that you're gonna fall even HARDER this time..remember I said that..

TWAT
Name: Shanna	2008-03-23
Yes. Its Obvious That Its Women That Are Bitter, Money Grabbing Bitches. To Be Honest, It Sounds To Me That You're Never Going To Get Married, And Not Just Cause You Resent It So Much. Simply Because. You're A Twat.

You Picked Her
Name: sugar	2008-03-30
You must have loved her enough to marry her. Move on...... get over it. it takes two, to not make it work.

To Free Man

Name: Soon to be Free Woman

2008-03-31

Oh Really? Well I'm looking up wedding vows to remind my husband of 28 years what he said to me when we got married in the letter I'm writing him telling him I'm divorcing him. See I just busted him in his 4 affairs with 4 women in the last 1 year and 9 months and in the process found out he's drained the finances with a crack addiction. Guess what I get half of? Nothing, he used it all in his little glass pipe and with his whores. I didn't nag him... I was too busy supporting him and taking care of the house and kids. My mother is no where around. SO STFU. There are good men and good women and evil men and evil women.

Issues
Name: babigoofy	2008-04-09
Dude you have some serious issues and i would suggest couceling.

WTF
Name: BTB	2008-04-30
Hey Free Man, you sound like an idiot. Maybe your wife left you because you were a bad husband. Ever think of that? Also, FYI, it's a proven fact that married men live longer than single men while the reverse is true for married women. So get over yourself.

dont run
Name: Future hajdasz	2008-05-04
do listen to free man advise. real men dont run like the punk free man.he must wasnt doing his part in his relationship.not every woman is like that their are some great women and men out there and i am one of them.

run forward
Name: engaged male	2008-05-09
sorry freeman but my fiance s the most loving person and i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with her. she is my best friend and the perfect one for me

jealous pathetic person
Name: happily engaged	2008-05-15
why would anyone look at wedding vows after obviously a bad relationship and leave a comment like that someone has ISSUES and needs to move on!

Free Man
Name: Your Mom	2008-05-19
This website is for people looking for vows for their weddings...go talk to your shrink, cause we don't care about your issues with marriage.

Random
Name: Beth	2008-05-28
Why is a 'free man' reading a wedding website?

Loser
Name: Whatever Free Man	2008-05-29
To Free Man's comments in "RUN" Obviously, your taste in partners is as bad as your spelling (try learning the difference between their, there and they're). Just because you are a loser who attracts and marries losers doesn't mean anthing about the act of marriage - it just means you are pathetic.

teehee
Name: LOLFREEMAN	2008-05-29
wow free man, somebody screwed you over in your life, bitter much?

Get off this site

Name: Emily

2008-05-31

Free man, why are you even on this site if you are so against making a commitment to the one and only love of your life. I'm sorry that you haven't experienced this wonderful feeling but you don't have to go around to sites where happy people are planning their special day and spread around your pain and hopelessness. If you weren't so afraid of commitment you might be happy too. Most women aren't like that, we're bot all pieces of shit. Think about it.

what a psycho
Name: hla	2008-06-01
'free man' get a life! you must have some serious problems, not all women are crazy biatches.

Whatever
Name: Nona	2008-06-15
Like said before, whatever you say. My fiance proposed to me because we actually love each other equally and there is nothing we have to gain from each other except mutual love, admiration and a lifetime of happiness

LOL
Name: Bobbi	2008-06-18
That is the funniest thing I ever read. I will be married 10/10/09

bitter and twisted...
Name: Brian	2008-06-25
get a grip man, you've clearly been hurt, let everyone have their chance - live and let live.

RUN

Name: Free Woman

2008-07-08

To all those women out there about to get married run! Men just want to lock you down so they have someone to insult, complain to and to make their friends jealous and appease their mothers and fathers. as soon as you try to loosen their evil grip on you they notice and suppress you even more! they make it impossible for you to leave and start investing their money in untraceable accounts, suggest loans in both your names and then force you to file for divorce so they cant leave you with a penny. Remember you get half, half the baggage, half the debt and all the shit they put you through for the rest of your life.. May these words haunt you forever...till death do you part...and then some.

Response

Name: Caitlin

2008-07-23

I don't normally respond to these sort of things, but I was perusing this site looking for my wedding vows. I happened to look down and see all of these comments, and I felt like I should say something.
I used to hate the idea of marriage. I was set on partying, drinking, and living with no regard to my future. But I met someone who made me realize that our lives have purpose, and that purpose is to serve God. In the Bible, it says simply that marriage is made for a man and a woman to come together, choose to love one another every day, and to serve God. Two together serve better than one. This is what marriage is meant for. Yes, too often people get married just to get married. Celebrities and regular people alike tie the knot and then are divorced only a few months later. My uncle, who I love dearly, is getting divorced by his wife after ten years. But they didn't have God in the center of their marriage. If we all understood what marriage was really meant for, and married for that reason, then marriages wouldn't fall apart. God is love, and true love only exists with God.

wow
Name: Deb	2008-07-26
wow...you seem bitter "free man" are you really that hurt over your divorce that you scourer wedding sites to bash women? i think some therapy might be in order

Sorry you have bad luck
Name: Candice	2008-07-30
Im truley sorry that you have been taken advantage of, but not all women want to tak advantage and take all your money and leave you broken. I know that happened to you, but there are some people out there, Like myself who hold these vows very close to my heart, and follow them and respect them, Not everyone does.... But some people do still,,,

How silly and unfortunate

Name: Lisajeanne

2008-08-04

How silly and unfortunate you are, Free Man. Simply because your union did not work does not mean others will be so unsuccessful. Don't try to ruin other peoples experiences because you can't keep your own marriage together, talk about immature. The mark of a bitter man is one who judges, ridicules and tyries to take away the happpiness of others. Maybe next time around the great and powerful Oz will give you a brain instead of a broken heart.

Wow
Name: Open Eyes	2008-08-05
Personal experience, Free Man? You probably married a nasty woman. Marriage is nothing to run from. It just all depends on who your partner is and if you took the time to actually get to know them before the wedding. I'm sorry your marriage was a failure, but not all marriages will end like yours. You should've choosen better. The failure is partially yours. Remember that.

to free man
Name: kmbr	2008-08-09
some one really fucked you over huh?

Get a life free man
Name: curious	2008-08-12
Why are you on this website if you are against getting married? Obviously you do not have anything or anyone else to do anything with. So I suggest that you get a wife so you aren't trying to ruin others special day.

So sad
Name: jen	2008-08-15
Wow free man, you really got hurt. Maybe you should see someone about it...pretty crazy that you are upset enough to make these comments on a "Wedding Vow" website. Kind of sad that you're that bitter. Good luck, I honestly do feel for you.

Free man
Name: missj	2008-08-21
free man, you are an idiot. and you sound realllly bitter. that's not attractive, buddy.

Gosh
Name: Melody	2008-08-28
Gah, dude, ease up on the stereotypes. Some of us women just want to find someone to love who will love us, end of story.

umm ok
Name: free man is a loser	2008-09-15
sounds like your one of those conceited a**holes who must have thought they never did a thing wrong. oh poor poor you! hahahaha

Free Man no Man at all
Name: bridetobe	2008-09-20
Free man---you must have either cheated on the one you loved and she found out and THEN she took you for everything, OR, she just got tired of your dumb ass and then filed for divorce and took HALF because she figured it was owed to her for putting up w/ your ass as long as she did.

Marriage
Name: Love Sick	2008-10-19
Marriage is awesome. Do not listen to Free Man. When you have surrendered your life to your wife there is no greater feeling on this earth. I say to all men, run towards marriage. As the Bible says he he finds a wife finds a good thing!

i love my woman
Name: wes	2008-11-25
i love my woman so much and i cant wait to make tons of babies with her and love her forever! how can you talk about women like that?! you are a piece of work. grow up.

hahha
Name: tazz	2008-12-09
So bitter it is funny. Dude, you knew it would end this way - you should have followed your inner "Voice" idiot :)

sorry for your bad choices
Name: happily married	2008-12-11
So sorry that you caught the wrong fish. Let this be a warning to all men to make absolutely certain they are choosing the right bride so they are not put in this guy's position. There are many wonderful, good and unselfish brides out there with no agenda other than to find a good man to love and support. Keep a clear head as you continue your search for the right woman.

whatever dude
Name: bride-to-be	2008-12-15
someone was having a bad day... maybe he said these at his wedding... :) besides, you can nag people even if you're not married to them.

LOL
Name: Lil Miss S	2008-12-15
You truly are a loser. Wait until you fall in love the same words that you say here are going to haunt you when it comes down to writing your vows. Haha.

For Lil Miss S
Name: digman	2009-01-08
hahaha good one, your comment made me laugh!

Cupid
Name: Lovemakestheworldgoround	2009-01-08
Hey Freeman, I come to look at all the wedding vows, as I am excited to be getting married and last thing I want to see on this page is you writing such terrible things. I am sorry if you had a bad experience, but even so real love exists in the world and I hope one day you find it.

bitter
Name: helly	2009-01-12
u sad, bitter little man

HA HA
Name: Kat	2009-02-08
to Free Man You are crazy! you must have got a bad one!

excuse me free man

Name: offended bride

2009-02-22

Obviously if you feel this way you were never really in love. When you tell men to run from the person who could truly love them it makes you look horrible and could ruin someones wedding day. How could you be so rude and immature yeah you lost money becuase you were stupid and probobly jumped into marriage. If you did not see how she apparently wanted to "lock you down so they have someone to nag, complain to, and also to make their friends jealous and appease their mothers" then you diddnt date long enough to know that you did or did not love her. So please do not be a rude,inconsiderate bastard when coming on to a site about a happy occasion called a wedding!

idiot
Name: man	2009-02-23
you obviously married a whore cant blame everyone else for your mistake you blind fool

idiot
Name: man	2009-02-23
or you just expected to much free man and she coouldnt handleu no more i am glad she is out of your twistedtwisted world

free man
Name: lulu	2009-03-06
someones having a bad day

its not always that way
Name: master dogboy	2009-04-05
If you pick the right one all problems will disolve before you as the sith crumble before the jedi

Free Man
Name: tom willy	2009-04-27
Dude, you're the biggest douche bag on the planet, next time pick the right wife.

I understand Free Man..

Name: Jake

2009-05-03

I understand your cynicism, but I don't agree with it. I don't presume to know why you feel the way you do, but rather than telling everyone to "RUN", I say, "Choose Wisely". The pain Free Man is talking about is experienced by a man who chooses his bride recklessly. No, marry for commitment, not lust. Marry for forever, not until it gets difficult. Marry because your woman makes you a better man with higher values, not because she makes you feel good for a moment.

I'm 23 years old and I will marry my beautiful fiance in less than a month. I run to her, not away from her, because I have chosen wisely.

TO FREE MAN

Name: ALAN

2009-05-13

SORRY FREE MAN THAT YOU FEEL LIFE HAS BEEN THAT UNFAIR TO YOU. IF YOU TRULY FEEL THIS IS WHAT MARRIAGE 'IS' , YOU ARE TRULLY BETTER OFF BEING ALONE. I GUESS I JUST GOT LUCKY TO HAVE FOUND A WOMAN WHO LOVES ME FOR WHO IAM AND NOT MY WORTH, SHE COULDNT CARE LESS ABOUT MONEY... FANCY HOME OR CARS... OR APPEASING HER FAMILY OR FRIENDS. I GUESS THAT GIVES ME REASON TO LOVE HER EVEN MORE. WE HAVE EVERYTHING WE WILL BOTH EVER NEED...........EACHOTHER

TO SOON TO BE FREE WOMAN

Name: ALAN

2009-05-13

AFTER 28 YRS OF MARRIAGE- WHAT A SHAME.. ITS HIS BAD!! IF HE WAS ANY TYPE OF A TRUE MAN... HE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN OUT OF THE MARRIAGE,BEFORE HE DECIDED TO LAY DOWN WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. TOO BAD YOU DIDNT DISCOVER THIS SOONER. YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY GOOD PERSON... HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE MOVED ON AND HAVE A GOOD MAN IN YOUR LIFE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.. TO THE EX-HUSBAND : ITS YOUR LOSS NO ONE DESERVES TO BE BETRAYED , YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE!! I CANT EVEN IMAGINE THAT YOU COULD EVEN STAND TO LIVE WITH YOURSELF. HOPEFULLY..........YOU CANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

to free man
Name: kat	2009-05-17
you are an ass hole

Wow
Name: Engaged	2009-05-24
Well, it sounds as though free man is bitter and has had some bad experience with the opposite sex; that sucks. I am going to be happily married so I don't think I will be running.

dont listen to the free man
Name: amazed	2009-05-30
not every relationship ends up with a divorce, as our society abuses the word love, the increases in divorces has sky rocket but not every relationship is the same...remember that. you dont have to run

Reply to RUN
Name: Dave	2009-06-04
No wonder she took half of everything you had. With an attitude like that she probably deserved all of it for putting up with your sorry self for any amount of time at all! I'm thankful for my fiancee. She's an amazing woman who only continues to make me a better person and bring out the good in me!

hahaha
Name: Yvonne	2009-06-25
'free man' for your own information, i earn more than my fiancee. can clearly tell you have not found the one yet.well, not just women can run off, men also have a history of having an affair with younger women too!!!

Run
Name: ...	2009-06-30
Free Man, I'm sorry you were hurt by your previous wife. But why are you on this site in teh first place?

Run
Name: Donna	2009-07-05
I think his comment was great!! men who say hes sad on here are Liars! there to weak to admit that's what there really thinking!! :D on the otherhand, men with money need to zip there pants up and think b4 they marry good looking money hungry women!! remember, its whats inside that counts :)

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sad
Name: Ashley	2009-07-25
It is sad that nobody respects the sanctity of marriage anymore! If you marry the right person there is no better feeling in the world! Too many people rush in too soon because of stupidity! Marriage is one of the best things that has ever happened to me! Thank God for the creation of such a special union!

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Name: Lovey	2009-08-12
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Reply to RUN
Name: RUN is a nutzo	2009-08-31
Hey "RUN" ~ You are crazy. Just because you are a total loon, don't ruin it for the rest of us. Maybe if you stopped being so selfish and appreciated your partner, you would actually find someone who wants to marry you instead of RUN from you.

to free man
Name: married woman	2009-10-05
Yeah well not every woman is that way and I feel for the ones in your life.you my sir are the reason women have problems with men and don't want to take that step. You are a typical man.

to free man
Name: becca	2009-10-24
you're an idiot

so sad

Name: Megan

2009-11-11

not every person is a cheating whore. that goes for men and woman. I love my fiance and vise vera. i trust him with all that i am, and i would never hurt him. i have told him every single thing there is to know about me. even my deepest darkest thoughts and secrets. i wouldnt have it any other way. i wouldnt have any other person. i have waited a long long time to find this person. I have been in some of the worse relationships you can think of, abuse mentally and physically, rape...you name it ive dated it. Not until i met him did i really know love and sacrifice. Its sad people have to feel this way about marriage, it really is, but i understand it. good luck to you all.

free man is right
Name: Estefany nd single	2009-11-14
he is right in a way but not every woman is lik this mayb he jst had bad luck