A second chance at happiness Comments

  • Mrs

    Just because it's 2nd time around doesn't mean it didn't work the first time! Some of us have been widowed and have been lucky enough to find love again after a truly horrendous time....both my Fiance and me are widowed and can't wait to be married - these vows are perfect for us as we truly believe we have been given a second chance. x

    Jane 2015-10-15

  • Perfect for past issues

    This is perfect for the right situation. My ex-husband thinks so and plans on saying to me as part of our vows.

    Kimberly 2015-06-03

  • Sounds like no one read this the way I did

    I think this is perfect for getting married a second time. It says "to learn to love you more each day, through all the days of our lives" and "My love for you is endless and eternal". This doesn't sound like a maybe or temporary thing to me.

    Carol 2013-12-14

  • Loved it

    I loved it. The sentiment is beautiful and the hope is eternal.. well done.

    chrissie 2012-09-21

  • Love you MORE

    The comment isnt learn to love you, it is learn to love you more. It is a promise that you will not let your love deminish, that you will help it grow.

    Ariel 2012-08-20

  • second time around

    Seriously, Monica, I have always held that when people inject that "try" word, they're done. I think Girlfriend is already SOL. Someone already has back door unlocked somewhere.

    Andi 2012-06-14

  • i love my life

    second chance

    ebrahim 2012-04-12

  • Love you for every and and day

    I love you forevery and and a day is good but for infinity if even better. I never want us to be devided again. As God is the center of our life then we can only grow stronger. If God is for is who can be aganst us.

    Greg Franco 2012-03-09

  • saying our own wedding vows

    Me and Dan have been together for the past four years and we really wanna say our own vows to each other and what we really mean to each other and how we really feel about one another in front of your family and friends and my son and his three kids too.We are going to get married in 2013 that's in two years from now.but it will go by fast.

    Lisa 2011-08-23

  • i agree with Monica

    I agree with Monica because when theres a second chance in life. it should be together in happiness.

    Tshaka 2010-12-13

  • this is number 2

    i am 22 years old and i have being married one time and he hit me all the time and know i have fill find the one and know i got a good man who loves not just me but me and my girls we love each other so much he dont know what to do

    christine 2010-11-29

  • disagree with monica

    this vow sound a bit more cautious because it is a second marriage vow. of course you should love someone before you got married, but those people have apparently promised their 'eternal love' to someone else before and IT HAD NOT WORKED OUT. SO BASICALLY, THE PERSON WHO SAID THIS VOW HAS BROKEN THEIR PREVIOUS VOW and hence it sounds not very romantic. although i am not in the position of a second marriage, i think this vow suits those who are remarrying as it is honest and reflection about their previous marriages and their promise to work very hard to make the marriage work this time.

    yvonne 2010-01-07

  • lol

    okay I completely agree with ya'll on this one! Shouldn't you already be in love with someone before you take vows in a wedding? I'm sorry maybe it's me but hello??!!

    Joyce 2009-09-02

  • vows

    it so nice feeling to renew the vows so that the relationsihp will last.

    emilyn 2009-08-23

  • I like karls idea

    that peom reminds me so much of me and my fiance cause we are both getting a second chance of happiness. That was the first vow that i have ever seen that I liked the most the others are just not describing me at all.

    Heather 2009-05-10

  • sad

    i like thiz it brings me bacc 2 my future

    lashay pennon 2008-12-11

  • second chance

    Love it although i look at it as a second chance but with someone else

    ms florida 2008-08-13

  • second marriage

    THis is in the second marriage vows...if any of you had been married before you would understand where this is coming from learning to love someone more each day is stating that this person is learning more things to love about them each day. Your first marriage you promise you will do all this but it doesn't happen the second marriage is entered into with a bit more trepidation than the first...

    TMB 2008-08-03

  • IMHO

    I only disagree with this because I was happy before I fell in love with him.....so he brought 'more' happiness to my life. And I can't 'promise to bring you joy'.....I just can't promise that. I can promise to try and bring you joy...???

    Tanya 2008-07-26

  • Second chance at happiness

    I promise to bring you joy?

    no. No one can bring you joy.

    You can promise to be faithful and loyal. course that takes a lot of hard work.

    anyway that's my 2 cents worth. Blessings to all.

    Linda 2008-05-07

  • thank you

    your vows for remarriage are beautiful and thank you for them i will be using one of them for my wedding
    thank you britteny

    britteny 2007-11-10

  • For Now

    Hey I agree with Monica it is good at the begining and then takes a turn!!!

    Amy 2007-06-27

  • Reworked it

    here is a reworked version

    (Name), God has given us a second chance to share our love with all that is here. I come today to give you my love, to give you my heart and my hope for our future together. I promise to bring you joy, to be at home with your spirit, and to grow to love you deeper each day, through all the days of our lives. My love for you is endless and eternal.

    Sue 2007-06-09

  • not enough

    Marriage vows should focus on the commitment-not just the love. Marriage transcends the passion.

    connie 2007-06-05

  • also disagree with monica

    she need to read it again, maybe she understand it.

    mel 2005-08-24

  • Agree with Monica

    I agree with Monica in a way. These vows sound like you are afraid to promise forever becase it didn't work the first time and they are nor very romantic.

    Billie 2005-06-24

  • angry minica

    sounds like monica is a woman scorned and is bias to fiath in love. the only part i am not sure of is the learn to love you. it should be grow to love you deeper.

    karl 2005-01-26


    sounds good at the begining, then it turns into a pledge of what I hope might happen, kind of I love you today and I will try my best to fall in love with you. We are together because it is politically correct, It may work, but if my true love comes along you will be SOL.

    Monica 2005-01-20

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