Neither of these are the vows that my husband and I said over 50 years ago. A lot is missing from both samples. Gotta check with my pastor.
The vows they give here for Baptist vows are incorrect!!.. . Baptist Wedding Vow Sample 1
I, ________, take thee ________, to be my husband/wife,
and before God and these witnesses I promise to be
a faithful and true husband/wife.
Baptist Wedding Vow Sample 2
"Will you, ________, have ________ to be your husband/wife? Will you love him/her, comfort and keep him/her, and forsaking all other remain true to him/her as long as you both shall live?" ("I will")
(Repeat) "I, ________, take thee ________, to be my husband/wife, and before God and these witnesses I promise to be a faithful and true husband/wife."
(Rings) "With this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow. In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, 'til death do us part."
my true love
Zoe i love you with all my heart. I will try to be the best wife i can be luv!!! You are my rock, you are the foundation that's hold's our family together and for that i am so grateful. Im so proud of the man that you are ,god couldn't have blessed me with a better husband!!!! Love you daddy!!!!!
DANIEL IS FAWKING AWESOME! ZOMG! DAN THE MAN! DAN DAN, HE'S THE MAN! IF HE CANT DO IT, NO ONE CAN! WOOOO! DANIEL! I LOVE YOU!
I have finally found a real man that makes me so very happy. Daniel is an awesome husband. I LOVE Daniel SO VERY MUCH!
that want old fashioned in a different way
Please Read the book, Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas.
Tracy, Where is God in your marriage? If he does not exist, there is no marriage, just married people.
Been faithfully married to my beautiful bride for 27 years! We are committed to this vows that we made before our Lord!
I believe that when you get married you should be ready to forsake all others you should be equally yoked.
Heart of love
I jenny take Sam living husband thee. I ways be with him
Because of this site I have been happily married to my loveing supportive husband for going on 10 years now
Just for fun and support
The vows are only meant for just a short time. Not many people marry for life, or are true to each other. Our society makes a joke out of marriage, that doesnt mean anything.
I got married this year on January 9 2015 and I was a weck because I didn't know what to say so I was so confuse until I looked it up and it was a great help now I a mum of 2 kids and one is james his 4 months and one on the way thanks to this I wouldn't have the family I have today .
Tell the Truth
When you say "I do", I will, "yes", "yes and forever", make sure you are telling the truth.
These are the vows my husband and I exchanged, soon to be 38 years ago, before an Air Force Base Chaplain. I love the traditional vows because they include "before God." Marriage is not easy, no matter how much you think you love each other. But when troubles come, and they will come, remember your vow is before and to God. He instituted the first joining of a man and woman in Genesis with His creation of Eve, and the words that a man should leave his mother and cleave to his wife. Later, in the New Testament, Jesus' first miracle is at a marriage feast. Paul also spells out very clearly what the relationship between a married couple should be. "What God has joined together, let no man tear asunder." AMEN (Let it be done this way.)!
SC History Lover
I love u Sally so much you are my one and only.
I need help
I'm looking for sumthing sweet loving and what make tear up
I'm very satisfied with the vows here. Thank You....
Very nice & too the point.
I'm getting married in june.
I have to idea what I'm doing.
I need some guidance...
This is my first wedding and I don't know where to start for planning? I want it to be perfect my first wedding and my only one
I'm gettin married in October and I'm nervous I don't know what to say
Regarding your comment you should discuss things with your mum; with your local church minister. You could also ask Citizens Advice Bureau if they can advise you.
i am getting married on feb. 16/13....... need idea for my wedding vow.
im getting married to a guy who loves me i need a vow that shows him i love him the same way he loves me
i love u kris lee cullum u re mine for ever love ur sweet fieonce rachel nicole meece
what to say on your we4dding day
Pray,and speak from your heart.God will give you the words to say,thay should be your words,not some one eles words. ask Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit to help you.I know the words will be full of LIFE.
God Bless you both,Pastor Barbara Wittenberg from Cleveland Ohio.
Im getting mariried july 7th n im thinking o use these vows for when we get married
to "CONFUSED" your first time?? are you expecting others after this?
i am getting merried on 121512
it will be my first time getting merried i have no idea what to say i really like this one
I am getting married in 27 days and don't have a clue
What to say so I'm just going to look around and add
Some personal stuff to one of the vows written here.
Dont know what to do.
Im getting married sat. and i have no idea where to start!! Help Please!
looking for ideas
thanks they realy helped my wedding planner madison taylor carr
say what u feel! :)
hey im getting married to my girlfriend (lesbian) and i was just wondering whos last name do we use or do we get to decide???
i'm getting married on novemeber and im nervous. but i know with vows like these i know everything will be wonderful..God hasen't failed me yet!
my own vows
i am getting married in may n we r writing our own vows
Make sure your mate is who God want u to be with
I've been married twice. My first husband was a great provider but was not there for me emotionally, or mentally. My second husband was there emotionally, But had someone way younger in mind. So what i'm saying is before you get married go to God first. Make sure your mate is there for you, mentally, physically,emotionally, spirtally and be a great provider if you are a woman. If you are a man make sure she is down for you, and not a gold digger. only want you for what you can do for her.
I too am getting married in sept
I personally like these words due to how simple they are to
A true commitment, not too over the top..
I am getting married in september but i want something more deep.
Not really felling it
Im getting married in june and i want this to be a special moment gir us so i wanna say something that will reslly touch his heart:)ang ine gave any ideas?
I thinhk you should write from your heart. Vows are personal and eternal commitments between you and your wife/husband.They should come from you and what you feel. It doesnt have to be eloquent. Just your love.
i am getting married in march and dont know how to write my vows
confused question answered
I am glad it is your first time. Let it be your last. Love is not conditional and marriage is not either. if you have problems such as the worst case scenario Adultery, Sex Addiction or anything but maybe being physically abused then stay married. Work through it. Obviously something went wrong along the way or it is from his/her past. Too many people twist the words of the Bible and say that Adultery is the only reason to get Divorced. What they are saying is that the Lord is telling people Love and Marriage is conditional. Remember bad time and good time, sickness and in health, richer or poorer. This means you stay together through everything. Don't have to much pride to work things through no matter what people say. They haven't walked in your shoes. No one should judge anyone else except themselves. Give yourself to your husband, let him know that you will stand by him through everything. Don't try and control him or tell him how he may provide for you or the family. Only offer suggestion. Men are sensitive when it comes to feeling like a man and they believe they should know what is best for their family. Be a cheerleader for him but don't be afraid to tell him when he has done something wrong. Compromise is huge is a marriage. See his family as much as he sees yours. Get to know his side well and becomes friends with as many members of his family as you can. Call them to see how things are going and to have lunch or just hang out. He should do the same. Don't forget to have US time. What I mean is a date night. Whether it is 1 time a month or once every two weeks. You need to remember why you two are together. Don't lose touch and if one feels neglected in the relationship then you start to have problems. Communicate and don't beat around the bush. Get to the point, be bold but don't be too aggressive or mean. Say how you feel and live life together and not alone. I hope this helps.
marriage is about saying whats from the heart1 its not manuscripted or or taught!
I am currently engaged to bunny rabbit! We are on the search for the perfect wedding vows. These vows need to take consideration of the fact we are stuffed. I feel these vows would be perfect, and our vicar benny would approve.
Find these Vows
My sister heard these wedding vows from a movie and i don't know where to find them or if the movie writer made them up. I think they are sweet.... With this hand i will lift your sorrows, your cup will never empty for I will be your wine, With this candle I will light your way in darkness, with this ring I ask you to be mine.....anyone know if they're real or where to find them??
marriage tips needed
am getting married this coming december 26, 2011. and i really wanted to make that day very memorable. one im thinking of is thru vows. Can you provide me some tips?..
nervous about messing up vowes
im getting married today. its small and simple. later we will have the wedding of are dreams, but im so nervous about the vowls LOL...but thanks for this site..it gives me and idea what to say..so i dont stumlbe (:
The Thing to Do...
The most important aspect of wedding vows is truth. The spiritual and emotional concepts of the wedding overtake the simplicity of the fact that you need to be true to one another. Tell him and her what makes your relationship real and what you are excited about. That's the excitement. Not the vows. Now the honeymoon (although the honeymoon has the potential to be great). How are you going to spend the rest of your lives together? Be honest. Tell your love how best they love you and how you best love them.
THE FIRST VOW
WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO WROTE THE FIRST WEEDING VOWS?
OMG like oh my gosh im ready to get married
If you are confused about what you should do on your wedding day....don't be. A ceremony is a very simple thing. Although tradition can get in the way...sometimes.
A simple guideline is this:
Giving away of the Bride
You can add as much or keep it simple as you want.
People sometimes have personal songs or readings in between "highlights".
I hope this helps!
TJ - Caferez@snet.net
Meet with a pastor/ officiant... Everything will be explained in detail.
This is very confusing, pretty sure some vows are missing ?
i love to get married!
i am getting married soon and i masterbate everyday
I have been married for 10yrs.I really beg all of you to spend more time and money on the marriage and less on the wedding. One day verses a lifetime.Do not be pressured by anyone. If you are meant to be you will know what to do.Be still and Listen to your heart. I know that sounds corny but it is very true!
The deep part of this is
The deep part of this vow is in the first sentence. Let me explain, First look at what a vow is it is a promise..a covenant.. like between God and man. In the first sentence of this vow .. this promise.. this covenant tells you that your vow is to God. Wow deep, right?
I do ceremonies for weddings all i ask for is gas money and a tip. Cheaper than anyone else heh. email is firstname.lastname@example.org
Your not supposed to have an idea what to do. Say what your heart feels at that moment and don't have it rehearsed. That is what u do.
be ture to urself
if ur getting married speak from your heart to ur mate and the love you really have, and the kind of life u want the two of u to hv, simple. be honest
You can do it
The traditional vows are beautiful in nature. If you want to go deeper and write your own vows, by all means do it! Just write from your heart, your spouse (soon-to-be) will, (or should) love you unconditionally. I'm getting married in 2 weeks and I'm not in the least bit nervous. Just lean on each other, that's what it's all about. =)
if you fell in love all by yourself
If you fell in love all by yourself then you know exactly what you are willing to for them.Put it into words! If someone told you that you are in love, then ask that person what they'd prefer you say! What ever you do remember marriage is more then the fancy wedding, so whatever your vows mean every letter in every word lest you be tested.
im getting married a year from now but i want to be ahead of things but this is not the vows i want but i dont want to make my own i just dont know what to say
rian i dont think you should use this one .. not very good
marrisa to be honest i dont think you sohlud have this one because its noit very good or romantic try some others
heard this one alot
oh my gosh how many times have i heard this one ? and its not really very cute !! :L
im getting married in july and its my first time so i have no idea what i should do and what i should say
but this is good but not deep.as it could be.
i am getting married in august and i have no idea what im doing can someone help ? x
thats not how i remember it
getting married this july and have no idea what im doing any advice
The vow is good but I was look for more. Maybe I'll after all have to sit and write my own. Because this is very straight forward. I want something sweet and juicy. Lol
Well these r nice but I want something a little longer I wanna get lost in the moment
when i get marride i plan to us these vows.
I THINK ITS THE BEST
Great Vows =) Short & Simple but so precious.
I am too young to get married, But this is so sweet and beautiful, I just had to comment on it! I love it.
im getting married at last
well im getting married in october and im so excited to be home shopping and everything starting new.. i dont have any kids i never been married...
short and sweet its very good
Perfect, making your promise to God, to your party in front of your witnesses. Short to the the point, loving and what it is all about!!!
im getting married in may an im looking for ideas
dude we just got two kids married at school with this!!!!
I am looking at vows cause i am getting married to a wonderful guy when he gets back home from overseas.
short easy to remember lol ;)
Getting Married To My Fiance Nathan In June Of 2010!=)
LOVING HER LIKE NO OTHER
OUR WEDDING VOWS ARE VERY IMPORTANT TO US AND WE ARE SPENDING A GREAT DEAL OF TIME GETTING THIS PERFECT.
Im gettin married soon and I was wondering wuts betta a traditional wedding or an original wedding?
to the Wedsite
Please so not post comments that contain swear words. We are dealing with sacred things here.
it's a great vow to get married to
Always Hang in there. Married 45 years to the most beautiful and sweetest wife a man could ever dream to have.
i think these are amazing vows i think they are everything that should and need to be said!!
I'm getting married in a week and i have no earthly clue what vows i want to do please help!!!!
not very good
I've never been to a wedding (and I'm Baptist) with these vows. Not sure why they would be titled "BAPTIST wedding vows".
These vows were short and sweet, and married us and forever we will be truthful.
-Herbert & Josalin
putting a ring on it 07-07-04
I'm putting my husband's new band back on his finger.
May 8th 2010? its my birthday! Congrats too!
hello whats up me and my mates are planning a wedding for my mate we need some good vows! Please help plz!!!
This is short and sweet. It gives people looking to get married great ideas for their vows.
I am getting married in august and i am looking for some ideas.
who changed the vows
WHAT HAPPENED TO OBEY HONOR AND CHERISH?
i think its perfect
hopefully i will be sayin them sone
ms jackilyn h
i am also getting married in may
I'm going to get married n this are prefect vows they are sweet but very true
faithful and true
may you keep your promises and them also
These are the vows that I exchanged with the love of my life 40 years ago and these are the vows that I will lead my daughter and her husband in. There is continuity in this changeable world!
Honor and Obey as bible says
Changing traditional vows is probably reason for so many bad marriages.
Yeah, I like this one. Traditonal! Cant go wrong really. Although its not very personal so could add stuff I guess!
marraige is great i have been for 27 years and it has made us stronger and we both walk close to God and we never go to bed mad at each other and we never leave home with out telling each other that we love them and when we talk on the phone to each other we end with telling I Love you we do this because we do love each other and you just never know when the last day will be..marraige is work but worth it
Iam getting married in May and these are perfect!
i love this im takin it
i thought it was great
its great i like it
Simple yet profound
This is a simle vow yet so expressive of ones love, not lust.
lets get marry
what happened to for better for worst for richer and poorer to love and to cherish till death do us part.
this one is too confusing!
I AM GETTING MARRIED
I am going to be getting married on May the 8th 2010 and I was just looking for some ideas as to how I am going to word my wedding vows! This site was very informative! Thank You!
I have just gotten marrieed Jan.26, went to Justice of the Peace had only family and close, close, close friends there. We then went to a great restuarant and celebrated. Nice, sweet, and did not spend a lot of money at all. It was a wonderful day, I would do it again and would not change a thing.
I am getting to someone and i was just looking for ideas
i love it
straight from the bible how its supposed to be
You should want it to be long because these words are the words that combine you as one for the rest of your life...Apparently if you say these ..you want it to be over... I would never...Thats an insult...Thats a wam bam thank ya mam kind of vows...Holy Shit...In all my life I have never seen anything like it...
im in love
I'm 18. and is engaged to a 19 yr old. I really don't know what i want, I do want him though.
To put in photo album
These are wonderful wedding vows, Thank You for the site it was very helpful!!
I thought it was very romantic, and somewhat sweet. When getting married, one should mean all of those things said in the Baptist Wedding Vows.
Met 23 years ago july 4th
Want to help him remember!Forever!~~~
I AM GETTING MARRIED AND THAT IS JUST WHAT I WUZ LOOKIN 4 . THANKS A LOT
YEY! I'm so happy to be marrying the man I love on April 28 2007
I love this because,it's short and very sweet,also romantic in a way.
Being a Baptisy myself, I mus admit that I am partial to these particular wedding vows. I think they are simple, yet very meaningful, and I anticipate repeating those precious words when I stand at the altar.
will out last the test of time
this vow is a strong and wonderful vow that will certanly out last the test of time
LOOKING FOR IDEAS
IM GETTING MARRIED IN MAY AN IM LOOKING FOR IDEAS
this is great short and sweet