Christian Wedding Vows Comments

  • relationship and marriage

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    Evette Morneau 2020-05-09

  • Kim

    My husband to be is in the army and not really sure when he is going to be out for good yet , but already has served 32+years. He told me that the only way is replacement with someone else to replace him and the money I send him is for his plane ticket home . I was wondering has anyone ever married online before and had it be legal ?

    Kimberly Brown 2019-12-22

  • Music Minister

    There's a great book on Amazon from Alycia Curtis called "Wedding Vow Writing" that makes it tremendously easy to personalize and enrich the ceremony for all involved, but especially for the bride and groom as they prepare for their new life together.

    RB 2017-07-15

  • Never knew

    As I was looking for the so called traditional wedding vows, I stumbled across your website and was flabbergasted at how many different wedding vows there are!! Thanks for the knowledge you have shared. It really opened my eyes up to something brand new. Thank you Jesus!! Doing a Seminar Soon on the sencirety of the wedding vows!!

    Carolyn B. 2017-06-15


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    Always Sincere,

    Nic 2017-02-19


    I completely agree with Regina Wright with what she said about there being power when we proclaim God's promises. I love God's Word and it is amazing how it can transform our lives completely in the most wonderful ways. I really believe that more people should declare, or rather pray God's Word over their lives and also speak His blessings upon their lives, and also the lives of those around them, this will positively impact so many lives...Recently, I began a project to make framed messages that can be personalized to give as a gift to someone dear to you, if you care to know more about this then please feel free to write to me.

    Always sincere,

    Nic 2017-02-19

  • None

    There is power in what we speak according to Gods promises. I enjoy reading the Christian vows out loud that supports what has already been established in the Bible. God said let there be light and it came to be!

    ️Regina Wright 2017-01-02

  • Sample 8

    This is the Bride's vows
    I, (name) , in faith, honesty and love, take you, (name) to be my wedded husband, to share with you God’s plan for our lives together united in Christ. And with God’s help, to strengthen and guide me I will be your supportive wife, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, in joys and in sorrows, until death do we part. I give you all that I have myself and my love. (All these things I pledge to thee) In the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ. With this ring I seal my vow of love to you, (name) and pray I may fulfill God’s place in our home, in the Name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

    Rachel 2014-12-18

  • sample 8

    I love the sample 8 however I cant find the brides vow. please help me!!! thanks :)

    Helen 2014-08-04

  • marrige

    it is good to get married ,but make sure you always find the right person who God had instore for you so you dont have to get devorsed.and one more tip if you have kids make sure the person love your child and treat them like his own and make sure your child loves the person and dont be all for yourself.

    shadae 2014-05-07

  • Brides reply to 8


    I ____ in faith, honesty and love take you ___ as my wedded husband. To share with you in God's plan for our lives together united in Christ. To be a loving helpmate to you with God's help and strength seeking Him always no matter the trial; whether sickness, health; joys or sorrows, till death do us part. I commit to you this day all that I am and all my love; I pledge to you, in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Before Him I offer this ring as a symbol and seal of my love for you and a symbol of unity. I pray to faithfully fulfill my place as your helpmate; to be obedient to God's purpose for me in your life and our lives together. To uphold you in prayer and submit my heart to you; to always be by and on your side, that the presence of the Lord reside in our home, In Jesus Name.

    Shannen 2014-02-23

  • great

    OMG this helped me so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    connor stokes 2013-11-11

  • sample 8

    I will difenetly go for this one ,i love this part: to share with you God's plan

    Lerato 2013-09-16

  • vouws 5

    so sweet, am blessed and i cant wait to do them in my wedding. God bless

    Thapi 2013-09-06

  • Bride part for version 8

    I ___Brice___, in faith, honesty and love, take you, __Elizabeth____, to be my wedded wife, to share with you God's plan for our lives together united in Christ. And with God's help, to strengthen and guide me I will be a strong spiritual leader for us in our life, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, in joys and in sorrows, all the days of my life. I give you all that I have myself and my love. (All these things I pledge to thee) In the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ. With this ring I seal my vow of love to you, and pray I may fulfill God's place in our lives, in the Name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

    I ___Elizabeth___, in faith, honesty and love, take you, ___Brice___, to be my wedded husband, to share with you God's plan for our lives together united in Christ. And with God's help, follow your leadership to grow in Christ together, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, in joys and in sorrows, all the days of my life. I give you all that I have myself and my love. (All these things I pledge to thee) In the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ. With this ring I seal my vow of love to you, and pray I may fulfill God's place in our lives, in the Name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

    I tweaked it slightly but this is what we're using

    Liz 2013-07-22

  • vowl1

    I Love vow-1.. but they're ALL nice!!!!

    Shayla Williams 2013-07-19

  • christian wedding vow

    wow I love them all

    delly 2013-05-14

  • Vows

    I'm not getting married but all these vows are so sweet and lovely I can't believe I have not found my soul mate ahhhhhh hurry up god but then again I am only 11 Eleven.

    Molly 2013-04-17

  • awwwwwwwww

    iwas looking at these vows for RE homoework and i fell in love with them! yes, i am only 12 but they are soooooo sweet. Thank you God for the love you gave us all.

    Praise the Lord!for look what love he has given us!!!

    love you world!
    ps. please do 1 good deed today, just randomly-they go along way you know!!!

    please also dont think i crazy, not that i care :D

    thank you god for this day x

    Mraz is a four letter word 2012-12-18

  • vows

    i love each and every vow, im definetly choosing one of these for my own wedding in a few weeks, they are lovely :)

    danielle 2012-11-22

  • Another Vow Option


    I chose you _______(Bride) to be my friend and wife in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. I will forgive you as Christ has forgiven us, and promise to keep my focus on God as I lead and protect our family. I will comfort and encourage you, I will be open with you, and stay with you as long as I live. With this ring I give you my promise that from this day forward you will not walk alone.


    I chose you ______(Groom) to be my friend and husband in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. I will forgive you as Christ has forgiven us, and promise to keep my focus on God as I honor and respect you, and submit to your leadership with a joyful heart. I will comfort and encourage you, I will be open with you, and stay with you as long as I live. With this ring I give you my promise that from this day forward you will not walk alone.

    (if you don't like the wife submitting, tough, it's in the bible that way and this is the Christian vows section )

    Risa 2012-11-07

  • honestly

    i would use on of these vows for myi wedding

    daishane 2012-10-19

  • Ditto

    Love sample 8 but would like to c brides response

    Sue 2012-09-26

  • the wedding vows

    these are the most incredible vows,full of christianity and love... Deep meaning and fulfilment. Where did you get them?is it okay if one says own vows from personal feelings?

    Ogopoleng Mushi 2012-09-25

  • sample eight

    I think for the bride vows all you do is reverse the wording. so you use his name and then replaced wife with husband as you would in sample 3.

    nikita 2012-09-24


    the vows are wonderful,this must have been an inspiration from the Holy Spirit. Thumbs up,Praise the Lord!

    Brenny 2012-09-17

  • Sample 8

    Did anyone ever get the vows for the bride on sample 8?

    Jamie 2012-09-17

  • where

    where is this in the bible I need to know ASAP!

    dezzy 2012-09-16

  • Christian Vow Sample 6

    Wow this is the perfect vows, I have ever read,it blessed the first I read it,I can't wait for my big day so I can read it to my better half.

    Zibuyile Ndlela 2012-09-05

  • Yuck

    Way too sexist. The preacher did these vows at my wedding and completely ruined the ceremony.

    Nikki 2012-08-25

  • Sample 6

    LOVE the vows!! Thanks for having them on here!

    Tina 2012-08-23

  • Wow

    Could these vows be anymore chauvinistic? Vows to sumbit and obey your husband; seriously, it's unbelievable. I am equal to a man and to see these vows that are supposed to unite a man and women contributing and encouraging the socialized disparity between us just makes me sad. I don't want a husband who rules over me, nor do I want to rule over him, I want to be completely equal and that's not what the majority of these vows are about.

    Anonymous 2012-08-13

  • Pastor

    I found these to be awesome. I will encourage Christains to use these vows instead of the traditional vows.

    Rosalind DuBose 2012-08-03

  • Head

    The brides vow is usually, I will take thee into my boosom, or something similiar. Amen

    Dick 2012-07-31

  • Vow 3

    I'm actually going to do sample 3. It's more mutual and doesn't have all these weird implications of gender roles in it.

    Anonymous 2012-07-28

  • awful

    wow, these are awful vows....they are all about the wife submitting to the husband.

    Ashley 2012-07-28

  • No vow for bride

    It is the same one as the groom :)

    Tara 2012-07-22

  • halol

    maybe its where it says "bride"

    Dan 2012-07-17

  • been looking

    been looking for the traditional wedding vows for a very long time.
    I am putting them in with our wedding photo and our wedding certificate in a beautiful photo box.
    thanks for collecting all of these,

    wildaisylady 2012-06-19

  • You guys know nothing

    Its scripture that the man be the head in the marrige not "above" the woman or better in any way, just the head, woman were created for man thats how it is if you wanna make up your own rules then fine but dont get mad about it it makes you look rediculous take pride in the fact that your the one to take care of your man, not go against him..... and you wonder why your men leave you! grow up guys

    jordan 2012-06-14

  • wedding vows

    the christen wedding vows are way too long to rememeber

    ashley hale 2012-06-01

  • 2012-05-17

    Enlightened me on if any, differenent in between, arriage vow and wedding vow.

    sangir kapong 2012-05-16

  • I love them

    They are all great I love, samples 5&6

    shawntra 2012-04-25

  • someday

    Such beautiful vows Someday I will say one of them

    Claudia 2012-04-19

  • awww

    i like these wedding vows so much i might oh wait i am going to use them!!!!!1

    markas 2012-04-18

  • luvly

    Nice,can't wait †? make my vows

    jules 2012-04-10

  • bambi Jerry

    find you and to hold from this day to be your my
    best friends do you my life together love her day
    this ring hold hands Groom - Jerry - bride bambi

    bambi Jerry 2012-03-23

  • Sample 8

    Sample 8 is adorable, I love it do much.

    Emmy 2012-03-14

  • Beautiful Vows

    I Like them all; it's a hard pick. They are al beautiful & Serving Christ words as well <3

    Samantha Evans 2012-02-20

  • sample 8

    where is the brides vows for this

    theresa 2012-02-16

  • Sample 5

    Those are absolutely the best vows I have seen. I am going to use those on my wedding day. They are so true and what I want in a husband. really really lovely.

    Jennifer le Roux 2012-02-10

  • vows

    Wow! I love it! Can't wait for my day, its abt 3 months away!

    rebekah brown 2012-02-08

  • sample 8

    The Bride's vows are the same as the Groom you just change the name's from what the groom would say to what the bride would say ..... And all the vows are so lovely i cant ancere for whomever posted the vows but most of them come from the bible

    Diana 2012-02-01

  • Loved this one

    Somewhere on this page of comments a Christian lady talks about not judging and some other things, then she says...

    "I am not judging you. I'm just trying to help God set all of you straight."

    Rolling on the floor LAUGHING so freakin hard!!!

    Pete 2011-12-29

  • False foundations for promises

    Do yourselves a favor and use secular vows. In all these the groom pledges love, leadership, and faithfulness, and the bride obedience, submission, and faithfulness.

    Drop all the religious pretenses and have a Dominant/submissive ceremony instead. Else once he discovers religion is man-made he will not be faithful, and she even before that time will not be obedient and submissive.

    Don't say the words unless you mean them, and for your marriage's sake don't tie the words to figments of mens' imaginations.

    Pete 2011-12-29

  • Sample 6

    I am much encouraged in that am about to make my vows soon. I thank God for bring in my line somebody I have promised to love

    Terry 2011-12-21

  • Sample 8

    I would like to use sample 8 but it start/ends at the Groom. I couldn't find the "Brides" response and I'm getting married on this Saturday, Christmas Eve. Can anyone help....thank you.

    Suzanne 2011-12-20

  • Wedding Vows

    Wow they are all very lovely! So Sweet!

    Lottie 2011-11-27

  • Submission

    These vows are great eye openers when you are going through. It reminds times can get rough but you made a serious vow before God. Women submit yourselves to your own husband. WOW...enough said (submission).

    Tiffany 2011-11-12

  • Confused

    I'm confused...a lot of people are throwing little baby tantrums and hissy fits about "domination" and how stupid these vows are...did you miss the "christian" and "religious" part? If you don't like them, you don't have to use them...don't act like a baby and act out on here just because you don't agree. No one is making you use any of these.

    As for my fiance and I, we will be using number 8 and crafting the brides response. For those of you who think it's domineering, read the entire chapter in Ephesians...husbands are supposed to love their wives as Christ love the church...laying down his life for her.

    Wendy 2011-10-04

  • Sample 8

    I believe that the brides version is exactly the same but obviously changed to say husband and/or groom's name where appropriate. They are beautiful vows. I am sticking with the traditional ones.

    Chrissie 2011-09-23

  • Sample 8

    Still don't see the Bride's response on Sample 8...I would love to use this for my wedding in 2 weeks...

    amy 2011-09-13

  • how it should be

    the man being the leader of the house is NOT a bad thing. it is how God intended it to be.. he made man and woman for DIFFERENT reasons, to do different things... just because the man is the "head" does not mean he is a slave owner of the woman.. it says in the Bible to love and cherish the woman, and the woman has just an important part of being the manager of the household and encourager of the family.

    It is the FALL OF SOCIETY that makes the women have to step up and take charge. women being leaders ISN'T bad.. but we shouldn't HAVE to if the men had the courage to do it themselves.

    read about DEBORAH in JUDGES (the Bible) to see what i mean.

    Luka 2011-08-24

  • Sample 8

    I amongst several others are looking for the brides response to sample 8. Can someone please post where that can be found? Thank you!

    Sharon 2011-08-10

  • Blasphemous child

    Me and Tamsin just got married!! We are not lesbians but we just felt like it was right *smiley face*

    Oh, and Diane. It's where ARE the bride's vows for this one. Just saying.

    VickiiHeartsTamsin 2011-08-04

  • Jerry

    Jerry take you bambi to be my Wife and husband
    take you to be my wife a to Love her him to live
    together to hold from this day you both shall live

    bambi 2011-08-01

  • sample 5

    its truly beautiful and sincere when one says it, i love it

    hellen 2011-07-28

  • sample 8

    Where is the bride part for sample 8

    claudia 2011-07-17

  • The Vows of Submission.

    I love how the vows show the womans submission to God and her husband to be. I love how they show that it is a strentgh to submit to your husband and not a weakness. Thanks for having this available for scriptural women like myself.

    Yolanda-Kay 2011-07-13

  • Sample 8

    What is the Bride's vow for this?

    Joy 2011-07-10

  • ...

    A woman is safe submitting to a loving man. She is only harmed when the man doesn't love properly. A true woman can love, submit, and help in a way that makes her even more esteemed than her man.

    A man in love with a true woman 2011-07-02

  • Samples

    These are all so sweet an I wanna say them all to my beloved. I think he will like wat I will say to him. Thanks for your help.

    Adela 2011-06-22

  • reply to sample 8

    i would say the bride's response is kinda the same as the groom's except sub husband for wife

    Anon 2011-06-19

  • sample 8

    these are beautiful vows if i only i could find the brides vows...

    charity 2011-06-06

  • Sample 8

    I know! That one was my favorite so far, but there's only one half :(

    Mary 2011-05-25

  • Hmm

    The Victorian era has returned. Let's all pledge our obedience to men.

    Ann 2011-05-16

  • Why

    It is just me or are these vows a tad bit sexist?Thank God im catholic.

    Jules 2011-04-29

  • wedding vows

    The wife should be submissive? The hussband will lead? Total bullshit...

    maria 2011-04-29

  • difference between muslim and christian marriages...its a huge one

    in the muslim religion the man lords over his wife and does not cherish her or love her or care for her when she is sick. submitting to your husband is allowing him to make decisions in the marriage. you love him the way the church loves christ. this doesnt mean he bosses you around. it means he gets the final say. however, the final say should be biblically sound and righteous in any decision. the mans role is to lead his wife in following the Lord and living for him and to love his wife the way Christ loves the church...Christ loves the church enough to die for the ones who believe in him so that they would have eternal life in heaven with no sickness or sadness. a husband should love his wife enough to make decisions that are best for her and their family. not in a selfish authoritative way and he should love her enough to be willing to die for her and put her above his own needs. it balances out as long as the two both live for Christ. these are the views of a christian marriage..completely different from a muslim marriage

    krystalin 2011-04-15

  • Absolutely I would never say this vow

    How can any woman in 2011 ever say "I will submit to you as unto him" (NO WOMAN SUBMITS TO A MAN)

    "Our Father created woman to be man's helper".(WHAT WOMAN DOES NOT WANT TO BE AN EQUAL! A HELPER IS NOT ON THE SAME LEVEL.)

    If anyone sked me to repeat those words, I would walk out of the church!

    Ann Meehan 2011-02-27

  • Lovely

    I think they are lovely as they are making a vow in front of God, and not just man. If I ever get married one day, I will probably say one of these vows.

    Amyswe 2011-02-19

  • all vows

    the vows are awesome. God bless you!!!

    Ella 2011-02-03

  • the wedding vows

    wow where did you get those wedding vows there awsome and im deffinly going to use them

    unknowen 2011-01-15

  • Sample 8

    I guess the brides could be the same...just change a couple things to reflect her role in the marriage

    Tina 2010-12-29

  • Sample 8

    Where are the brides vows...these are so beautiful. Can you post them here in the comments or email??

    Tina 2010-12-29

  • Groom does not mean GOD

    If getting married means submitting entirely to one's husband and treating him as a superior, then I won't be tying the knot any time soon. I liked Sample 3, which was classic and equal. No bride should 'obey' her husband. Conflicts should be worked through together. Women aren't children - they are adults, and every bit as valuable as men.

    Anne 2010-11-28

  • Possible Sample 8 Bride


    I ______, in faith, honesty and love, take you, ______, to be my wedded husband, to share with you God's plan for our lives together united in Christ. And with God's help, to strengthen and guide me I will be a suitable helper for you in our life, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, in joys and in sorrows, until death do we part. I give you all that I have myself and my love. (All these things I pledge to thee) In the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ. With this ring I seal my vow of love to you, ______and pray I may fulfill God's place in our home, in the Name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

    Rob 2010-10-19

  • sample 3

    love it so simple

    tony 2010-09-27

  • Wow

    These are nice wedding vows, but my concern is whether they are really adhered to.

    Caxton 2010-09-11

  • sample 2

    almost moved me to tears :')

    Megan 2010-08-23

  • wedding vows.

    All these vows are so meaningful, so thankful for the one who set up this website. Though it might not be handy to me now, but I'm sure in future, it will. As god has a plan for me in my life. God bless you. (:

    Ling. 2010-08-21


    I love these vows especially sample 5. Captures exactly what i would say.

    ShaRhonda 2010-07-15

  • Sample 8

    Does anyone have the brides response????

    JMM 2010-06-09

  • wedding vows

    why the hell should the bride say i OBEY? girls are not servants to thier husbands and any woman who agrees to say 'i obey' in thier wedding vows are stupid

    someone 2010-05-25

  • in love

    me and my fiance are really big christians and these wedding vows will be perfectly for our wedding vows they are meaningful careful and really deep down lovely and perfect these will make everyone even us cry

    samantha newman 2010-05-19

  • hello

    wow those are really great. i cant wait to get maried to my bisexual boyfriend tomoro and say these to him :)

    bob 2010-04-29

  • sample 3

    yes just the 1 iam lookin 4 thanks so much xxxxxxxxx oh and the rest r sweet.xx

    yasmin 2010-04-17

  • great

    i thing those vows are really good especially for a cathlic wedding

    kyla carlton 2010-03-19

  • love

    im 31, have two children, went through a divorce after 10 years of marriage. i have had passion. i have had romance. i have been married to my closest confidant... i have never loved like THIS. i dont care about the dress, the invitations, the guest list, a diamond... all i know, is no matter how i try to be independent, these vows..his eyes, two simple bands. i LOVE this man! i HOPE and PRAY one day, he will decide in his heart to pledge to me what i have already given him in mine.

    rachel 2010-03-07

  • wedding vows

    they are all excellent, I like them all. Thanks

    Yolisa 2010-02-24

  • vow 8 for the bride

    pls can you put up the vow for the bride number 8 is missing please would really like to read it and consider using it please help!. thanks Godbless

    nicky 2010-02-14


    to those who commented negatively. woe to all of you. you don't know and appreciate what God has given to you even the air you breath and the life you have. you should be ashamed of yourselves. marriage vows are sacred it is not just a commitment to your partner but it is also a commitment to Christ. READ EPHESIANS 5:21-33

    ...... 2010-01-27

  • The Wedding Vows

    I absolutely love these and know that what we select will be absolutely perfect for us.

    ZAC 2009-11-26

  • All Christian wedding vows

    Oh, how wonderful to find wedding vows that express God's will for His children in marriage. My fiance, David and I will definately use these vows on our wedding day. God bless!

    Grace 2009-11-25

  • very nice vows

    those vows are very touching! thanks for making a site for them, its helpful :-)

    helen 2009-10-30

  • Vows

    These are so perfect! It would make you sound like you got married every day!!LOL

    Kelly 2009-10-14

  • wut

    why does the bride have to worship her husband like god? it's just weird.

    Chunky 2009-09-30

  • strange

    why in most of the above vows does it sound like your marrying god,when you are infact marrying your fiance?

    andy 2009-09-22

  • sample 8

    what i did was i took the grooms vows and made it a brides one from those words and added a little indivduality it was my favioret one so i had to use it haha

    miranda 2009-09-03

  • Lovely

    I could go on about writing my own vows, but this all says it all its wonderfully put together and has all the dignified meaning that you would never thought of.

    Sanny... 2009-08-24

  • nice and simple

    Nice and simple, without being particularly religious.

    Rachel 2009-08-20

  • Bible Verses.

    If you do not have a Bible at home, dont let this be an excuse for not reading one. "" has bibles online. You can find the version you'd like. I hope this has helped you. I may be a woman, but that can help. I can try to reach out to the women like some of you on here that do not believe in submissiveness. I myself had trouble with the idea of that untill someone gave it to me straight. If you dont believe in parts of the cant belive in any of it. Jesus is my Savior and I hope to help others see how great He is!!!

    Tabatha B. 2009-08-06

  • 1 Corinthians 1-4

    1 Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me:
    It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

    Tabatha B. 2009-08-06

  • 1 Timmothy 2 8-13

    8 I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting; 9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, 10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works. 11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.

    Tabatha B. 2009-08-06

  • Colossians 3 18-19

    18 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
    19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.

    Tabatha B. 2009-08-06

  • Ephisians 5 22-33

    Ephisians 5:22-33 "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
    Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she respects her husband."

    Tabatha B. 2009-08-06

  • Why tradition might not be so good

    These all seem pretty misogynistic. The groom is the leader with benevolent dominion over the bride. I personally do not think God is a sexist. I think I'll go with the non-traditional, thanks.

    Paul 2009-08-03

  • Patriarchy is not Biblical

    Patriarchy is in the Bible, but it is not "Biblical." Sadly, many things in these "Christian" vows do not reflect the heart of the Gospel message. Marriage is about submitting one to another. It should be a partnership with mutual respect shared between two adults, not a authoritarian, parent-child type relationship. When words like "obedience" and "submission" are used exclusively for one gender and "lead" and "guide" for the other, we perpetuate the very systems of gross injustice that Jesus came to overturn.

    Bride 2009-07-29

  • i loved it.......

    God bless every1 who are planing to get married soon according to Gods plan!

    Zarin Nandan 2009-07-28

  • 1st vows

    i really liked all the vows i think i ll pick few lines for my wedding out of this...

    Zarin Nandan 2009-07-28

  • sample 8

    where are the bride's vows for sample 8?
    i am unable to find it.

    Katrina 2009-07-03

  • wedding vows

    i LOVE them! uqhh! is soo beautifull...aww:))

    Cathy 2009-06-20

  • Wedding vows

    I jus want you to kno that I love all these vows. I just dont kno which one I want. They are all so perfect.

    Canesia Thompson 2009-05-29

  • amazing

    i got this for my wedding and all the guests really enjoyed it

    i, ashley, take you sally to be my lawful wedded wife. to have and to hold, for richer, for poorer
    to deliver in the bedroom and give head when summoned.
    in gods eyes, he sees great sexual activity between us and from this day forward i will always scream when i am orgasming.

    ashley 2009-05-22

  • all

    These bride's vows are awful... I will sumbit to your headship? I will be submissive and obedient? I don't get who would be so subservient.

    tori 2009-05-08

  • The Vows

    These are so very beautiful. Im looking at these wishing I was getting married.

    Leslie 2009-04-06

  • really excited

    i am only 15 now and i cant believe how sweet these all are =]]

    nikki 2009-04-06

  • so wonderful

    i'm afraid i'll say one like these, & he won't mention the Lord at all lol

    Elle 2009-04-02

  • Sorry

    I apologise for all the rude comments and irreverant remarks made by the bozos who find some sort of sick gratification from defiling this site which should be left for the use of genuine brides and grooms to be. Get a life - sicko

    Lynda 2009-03-14

  • Vow 8

    I was so moved at how the vows reflect the love that god has for his church.amen and amen

    Starretta johnson 2009-03-08

  • Awful

    Oh my god!!! I'm astonished! The bride's vows in all the samples are humanly unacceptable; I'll be obedient, I'll submit myself to you, God create woman to be man's helper, and blablabla....
    As a woman, I refuse to understand where these vows are coming from.

    Mel 2009-02-25

  • sample 1

    this is so great,super!

    chief and mmabontle 2009-02-23

  • this vow is so sweet

    people always stay in love all the time cause ther is a sweet person named Eriska and Isha

    Alex Jasper 2009-02-13

  • These are aweful

    Women and men are equals! No where in the bible does it say that women must obey. These are a load of shit!

    Andrea 2009-02-06

  • marriage

    Together. As. 1 powerful combination. Faithful. And true. Nothing can. Break apart. God. Is. Watchin. Us. All. Beware. When.the. great god. Releases. A thinker. In. The earth. For. The. Elects. Sake. Time. Will. Be. Shortened

    dee scott 2009-02-06

  • wedding vows

    Absolutely. Beautiful.

    Debbie 2009-02-06

  • ladies

    come on ladies you are saying you are happy telling the world you are less of a person cos you are female like most the the vows tell us. im not and wont be saying anythink that put anyone better than me.

    kelly 2009-01-09

  • tony is they best

    tony is they best in the world

    tony 2008-12-08

  • sample 8

    i love this one and will use it in my wedding which is in a few days

    caroline 2008-11-30

  • Sample 8

    Has anyone found the Bride's vows for this one? Please help!

    Tamara 2008-11-23

  • Sample 1

    This seems very out-dated and sexist...the brides vows of "...obedient and faithful..." and the groom's of "...loving and faithful..." Wow!These are great for a good laugh, though. =)

    Elysha 2008-11-20

  • Vow 8

    I'm getting married soon and love vow number 8, but i would really like the brides part also. please email it to me. Thank you.

    Kandra 2008-11-11

  • Sample 8

    I like Sample #8 best, but where is the bride's vow?! :(

    Kristi 2008-10-28

  • Excellent Chistian Vows

    I think these vows are amazing. Thanks you sure made it easier for me on my wedding day.

    Tanesha 2008-10-22

  • sample 8

    I would like to see the Bride's vows???

    Lisa 2008-10-06

  • beautiful

    the vows are such beautifully presented and expressed.
    feel like gettng married at this very momemt by reading the vows.

    jazz 2008-09-10

  • Sample8

    Yes, where is the bride's vow? These are so heart warming...they bring tears to my eyes.

    Alisa 2008-08-21

  • Imperfect humans

    Quit slammin on stuff you will never understand or believe! Dammit!!! Marriage is when you commmit yourself to be with the one you love until death its not sexist!!! I dont know where in the hell you are getting this but cut the crap!!! You and I are all such stupid sheep! We keep falling into the same sins which are like ditches and try to make ourselves seem better than the others! And he keeps having to pull us out but why??? Because of his perfect love mercy and grace thats why!!! I say to all of you who think this way quit acting like a bunch of pharasees who are being holier than thou!!! Fyi there is no such thing as a good person we are all sinners! Again cut the crap and read and I do mean reallly read the bible and pray to God to forgive you for committing all these sins and keep the relationship with Him alive!!! And when you become humble loving merciful wise in God's ways graceful kind perfect AND Godly like Jesus was and quit sinning altogether only then will you be able to judge!!! Whosoever has not sinned shall cast the first stone and judge not lest ye shall be judged! And fyi I am not judging you. I'm just trying to help God set all of you straight. As the title says you and I are such imperfect humans....

    Matt 2008-07-15

  • Wedding Vows

    Where does it say that women should submit to men when they are married? I'd like to know this. P.S., I have a King James version of the Bible.

    Matt 2008-07-15

  • Thanks

    This will be a big help!

    Chad 2008-07-15

  • Brilliant

    I LOVE THESE VOWS! The bride has to like totally be the husband's servant and obey and be his little helper and stuff. This is great! I wish I believed in God, just so I could use these vows just to hear an intelligent, thinking being who's probably, like, totally my intellectual superior be completely subservient to me. THAT would be COOL.

    Mr. Odjenist 2008-07-10

  • sample 8

    How old fashioned

    Jenny 2008-07-08

  • Sample 8

    I really love Sample 8. I am getting married soon and would really love it if I could find the bride's side to this... they would be the perfect vows for us.

    Megan 2008-06-13

  • Sample 3

    I am going to use this one when I marry my fionce Logan Ray. It will be a blast!!!!! And everything is going to be a camoflage wedding!

    Danielle 2008-06-02

  • re saying grooms vows

    The vows refer to the groom as Christ and the bride as the church to help christians understand the call of marriage. And yes, these vows seem extremley sexist, but if you were to read the passage in the bible where it calls for a wife to submit to her husband read the verses before that and you will find that God calls also the husband to submit to his wife, to love her as he loves himself. It's such a misunderstood concept. The whole submitting idea. Seriously if you don't understand it ask a pastor to explain it to you. That's what I had to do. I was really offended at first, but when my pastor read to me the previous and following verses on submission and marriage it wasn't offensive anymore.

    Kris 2008-05-12

  • educate yourself...

    I think some ppl need to educate themselves on religious ideals before they go making idiotic comments; especially about things they don't even understand. And also why are you looking at christian vows if you don't intend on using them, or are a nonbeliever??? That's like me going in and looking up islam wedding vows to use.
    I was going to try and explain the concept behind a wife submitting to her husband. But I wont, because it's way too long. Before you judge or think there is no equality (which there is) go ask a someone who has an understanding. How ignorant can you be??!!

    Jordan 2008-05-12


    I'm never going to say any of these Bride's vows, I much prefer the Groom's vows. If I said the Groom's vows: I get to lead, my wife gets to be my 'crown', she must be submissively obedient to me, my people will be her people (not vice versa), she will serve me and she will be my 'helper' (not co-partner/equal etc). I can't imagine any man saying any of the 'Bride' vows above to his fiance! It's sickening how the bible has been used out of context in many of the above vows to justify the promises. Above the Groom is frequently likened to Christ, and the Bride is frequently likened to the Church. Why does the Groom get to be closer to Christ? Why does she have to obey her husband?

    Amelia 2008-05-10

  • Brides vow for sample 8

    I would love to know the brides vow for sample 8. my email is

    Candra 2008-04-20

  • Sample 8

    I agree. Can anyone tell us where the bride's sample 8 is????

    Nicole 2008-03-30

  • Christian Wedding Vows

    These are just beautiful! I'm excited about getting ideas from here! They are so biblical from what I can see, and they seem to claim God's promises in making this promise to each other! :-)

    Ver 2008-03-29

  • cute


    mdd 2008-03-27

  • thank you

    I just want to thank you for provideing these wonderfull vows.
    We haven't been able to come up with a trully Christian wedding vows untill now.
    thanks agin

    Lowell Foster 2008-03-17

  • Classic

    Ahhh... Sample #3 - Classic, old school... short and to the point... nothing about obeying this or that...

    Nothing 2008-03-10

  • the green mile

    hi my nmae is christine easthope and i am wondering if you could tell me were did you get those wedding vows cause i think they are the sweetest things ever and would you mak one expecially to my best friend i will pay for it so please if you do you are a life saver

    christine 2008-02-25

  • Pastor

    I would like all of the vows of 8

    Emma Jean Jackson 2008-02-14

  • Christian Vows

    Very sweet vows. God Bless.

    Jodi 2008-01-11

  • superb

    certainly feels like heaven to hear all dis for u...esp u..on ur wedding day...

    Priyanka 2008-01-03

  • open your eyes

    This is unbeleivable, when I read the comments regarding the muslim vows all I hear are negative remarks regarding the use of the word obedient. It is used here in the Christian vows as well and yet I hear only positive comments. Take a look. This is racism at it's worst folks. Both religions have a history of sexism.

    open your eyes 2007-12-04

  • Omg

    they are so awesome and i wish that i had a fiance to share them with and use on my wedding day. oh well, i keep them on my wedding wish list and if the day does come-then i will be happy to use them.


    ibpablo dot sanchez at 2007-11-27

  • Sample 8

    It was beautiful. I was looking for the Brides response as well.

    Nakisha 2007-11-04

  • vows 7

    we love these they speak of trust worthness to wife an husband as god spoke to us

    cindi-richard 2007-10-11

  • traditional vows

    I think it's time to change the Roman tradition of the man being above the woman and look at each other as equal partners.

    Abigail 2007-08-31

  • Yuck.

    Who wants to be quoting out of the bible on their wedding day?!
    Some hardcore religious people. That's who.
    Short and simple is best I'd think.

    Kiaraaaaa. 2007-08-29

  • For1

    Their is no such thing in marriage "for better for worse" "in sickness and in health". God instituated Marriage as a good thing. When exchanging vows you are supopse to profesiah good things into your marriage. So when exchanging vows I surgest, "For Better for Best" Recommeded books to read - Sucess in Marriage by David & Faith Oyedepo

    Ola 2007-08-28

  • Sexist

    All these vows are sexist and assert male dominance over women.

    Further proof that weddings are just another sexist part of our society.

    Alice 2007-08-25

  • Nuptuals

    I am looking for what it is that the preacher, minister, notary, etc. says to the couple before they say their vows.

    Teena 2007-08-10

  • Super Vows

    I'm going to cry at my wedding. i just know it

    Maria 2007-08-05

  • inspirationalisms

    This has inspired me to find a wife to calleth my own. I hope to one day cleave to her. I don't know what cleaving is. My future wife will be a funny gal. She will appreciate these vows.

    Thanks for fulfilling my ceremonial needs.


    DivineNed 2007-07-23

  • Sample 8

    Where is the Bride's vows for Sample 8? I really like it and am trying to find the Bride's

    Bride 2007-06-27

  • vows

    i want you to be my lawful wedded husband and hope to please your every desire. god has helped us to realise one another and for this i thank him and his son jesus christ. i will always be there for you and always respect and cherish your choices. in the name of the father, the son and the holy spirit i give you this ring..

    emma 2007-06-23

  • lovely

    oh my god! these vows all ring so true to especially sample 1. how do i get the man to propose hee hee.

    emma 2007-06-23

  • Sample 8

    The groom's vows are beautiful...where are the bride's?

    Mandy 2007-05-30

  • Christian Wedding Vow Sample 5

    I showed these vows to my friend James and he used them when he got married to the love of his life Ro

    Richard Marley 2007-05-23

  • hiya

    they are ok bt its nt really showing your love is it
    leanne hayward

    leannehayward 2007-05-22

  • Double standards

    Funny, on the "Muslim wedding vows" people have comments like "a bunch of crap" or "the bride sounds more like a dog than a bride". BUT here people are saying that are "lovely" and "sweet" vows ... And they BOTH speak of the same thing!!!! What a hypocrisy!!! Has anybody actually READ the vows?? I mean REALLY REALLY read them?
    Bride is of course saying she will be obedient, following her man, him being her headship .... Talking about a bride being a child or a dog! What piece of crap!!!

    I really hate this double standards!

    Xenqi 2007-05-15

  • wedding vows

    i love you always and always will in this marrige i will proimse to love you and care for you went you are ill

    kelly 2007-04-17

  • Bible Verses

    The Bible reference for the 'submission' and 'Christ's love for the church' is Ephesians 5

    Jonathan 2007-03-26

  • Very Well

    I like the part where the bride marries the wife to make a happy ending... until the children come and then we're all in trouble!

    carl 2007-03-19

  • sexist crap

    Whatever happened to 'love thy neighbour' I've never read anything that offended me more. where is the equality, is that just a word for Christians. so much for Christian values. how any woman can subject herself to this heap of s**t is beyond me.

    Beth 2007-03-06

  • love

    i cant find any love hims

    bob charles 2007-01-22

  • Sample 8

    I can't see the Brides vow

    Larry 2007-01-14

  • Sample VIII

    does any one know the brides lines???
    i need to know before we go to the alter, else she is gunna ... well have you eva heard of bridezilla?!

    GROOM 2007-01-01

  • sample 8

    would love to read the brides response to these vows they are wonderful

    melissa 2007-01-01

  • stuff

    well that was the worsy and crappest thing i have ever not tried to read

    ben 2006-11-14

  • renewall of vows

    Can I get a sample these vows because I'm stuck.

    priscilla 2006-07-20

  • Wedding Vows

    They are awesome, and spirit filled. It is my hope to one day soon be reciting one of those vows.

    Sweety 2006-02-09

  • Dudes

    The men's are pretty cool but I think the chick ones aren't so great for a wedding with any non-yet-believers there. =-)

    Louise 2005-09-20

  • Thank you

    This is such a wonderful one-stop website for all of my ceremony needs. Thank you so much for making this easy. I love this vow!

    Emily 2005-08-27

  • does someone want to marry me

    these are nice, but i wish someone would say them to me

    betty 2005-06-01

  • Sample 8

    Again, Where is the Bride's vow for this one.

    Milly 2005-05-20

  • sample 1

    These are amazing vows! What a testimony to Biblical marriage and the marriage relationship intended by God. Kudos to whoever posted them! Praise God!

    cynthia 2005-04-18

  • sample 8

    i am unable to find the brides response anywhere. can anyone help. thanks

    Betsy 2005-03-24


    where did you get all of these VOWS??? THEY ARE SO SWEET

    Ashton 2005-03-17

  • Sample 8

    Where is the Bride's vows for this one? They are all so lovely.

    Diane 2005-01-28

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