Kurt Cobain & Courtney Love

Waikiki, Hawaii; February 24, 1992

True marriage is more than joining the bonds of marriage of two persons. In its right relation, it's the uniting of two souls already attuned to each other. When such a true bond already exists between man and woman, it is fitting that an outer acknowledgment be made. This acknowledgment is the prime object of this gathering and this ceremony. We are here to bear witness to the entry into the closer relationship of husband and wife of these beloved friends who are already one in spirit.

You are now taking into your care and keeping the happiness of the one person in all the world whom you love best. You are adding to your life not only the affection of each other, but also the companionship and blessing of a deep trust as well. You are agreeing to share strength, responsibilities, and to share love.

At the end of this ceremony, legally you will be husband and wife, but you still must decide each and every day that stretches before you, that you want to be married. Make such a decision and keep on making it, for the most important thing in life is to love and be loved.

May you always need one another, not so much to fill the emptiness as to help each other know your fullness. May you want one another, but not out of lack. May you embrace one another, but not encircle one another. May you succeed in all important ways with each other, and not fail in the little graces. Look for things to praise, often say 'I love you' and take no notice of small faults. May you have happiness, and may you find it in making one another happy. May you have love, and may you find it in loving one another.

This ring by its shape is a symbol of the undying love that exists between you. The substance of which it is composed is a symbol of purity, which shall ever characterize your mind and hearts in all your relationships together.

EIA IHO NO, KA MALUHIA, O NA LANI, ME OUKOU A PAU (The peace and serenity of the heavens be with you all). And so it is ... Amen ... and ALOHA!


  • Kurt and Courtney

    Kurt was depressed. Believe it or not you can be in love and still be depressed enough to commit suicide. She didn't drive him to it.

    Mary 2015-03-22

  • Embrace

    No one knows what goes on in people's lives that leads them to take drastic and heartbreaking measures. Sometimes people can only see one way out of the pain and suffering they are filled with...left with the why? is sometimes better than left with the knowing.

    Katy 2013-08-08

  • Ya Petra again

    Okay so all Kurt ever said was that he loved Courtney she didn't drive him to do shit. Just because she's a crazy bitch doesn't mean anything. Courtney was also in love with him and him dying kind of ruined her. Why would she want that. She's always gonna be known as his crazy widow. And I did watch Kurt and Courtney which led me to the conclusion that someone murdered Kurt but it wasn't Courtney. I love Kurt and nirvana so much they are really the only music I listen too but you can't blame everything on Courtney because she's a tough ass there are plenty more suspects it could have just been a crazed fan on Dave grohl just saying...

    One more thing 2013-07-13

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